Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Giving Chances

Whatever reasons it may be, are you still willing to give someone a second chance? Some people will, others won't. Personally, I believe that everyone of us deserves another chance. Who are we to close our doors anyway? Even our parents forgave us no matter how great our mistakes were. Even God died for us to give us another chance to live our lives and to change.

Important thing is that, we learn from our mistakes and experiences in life. In this way, it helps us become more mature to face trials in our life with a positive and open mind. I guess people who doesn't give another chance are close minded. But we cannot blame them on the other hand for they were hurt.

But what hurts most is when you gave someone another chance/s, believing that everything will be okay after and he'll somehow change; but, when you were the one who made a mistake, everything just ended and there's no chance given to you to prove yourself by that same person. Worst is, he thinks you'll never change and he thinks worst things about you.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Love can expires and when it does, it really hurts. But I guess time will heal the wounds. We have to move on. You are beautiful and would not have any problem embarking on another journey of love.

kerubin said...

wish i could do something to ease your sadness away. you deserve to be happy. at least lemme try. yun na lng gift mo sakin sa christmas. ^__^ tapos i'll do everything i can to make you say that you don't regret ever knowing me. i said i'll wait. i still am waiting.

Crissy said...

Sorry kerubin but you're not the one that I needed this moment. i still am longing and holding on for arven. i hope that's clear to you.

Crissy said...

i told you to stop bugging me. sorry to say this but i will always regret knowing you. stop pursuing me... there's nothing to wait!

Anonymous said...

very well said. bagay lng sayo yan kerubin. hintay ka lang sa wala.

Crissy said...

please stop using anonymous names

{girl}forallstatus said...

hope your hurting is over. it's christmas. be happy.

"Vive bene, spesso l'amore, di risata molto." Live well, love much, laugh often. This is an old Italian wish for you and your family this Christmas and the New Year ahead!

Crissy said...

merry christmas agfas!

maying said...

Hi Crissy! Awww...I feel a little bit sad but happy for you coz it's about time . Hayyy...you're like a sister to me and I wish I could be near you to listen to whatever you wanna say. Well, I feel for you girl. But remember one thing. No matter how insignificant you may feel right now, BELIEVE ME, this will pass and you will look back not regretting but thanking that you have risen above it all...well, that is if you choose to rise above this whole situation. Akala mo lang yan cris na parang wala nang purpose ang life mo, but girl...single life is a blast!!!! Sa ganda mong yan hindi lang maraming lalaki pero MARAMING DISENTE LALAKI ang maghahabol sa yo! Sus na lang...eh meron nga akong kilala na atat na makuha ang number mo eh..and take note..businessman yon noh! Girl, I tell you...wag mo sanang masamain pero for the longest time I've asked people in the know until when you're gonna wake up and see you with another person because you deserve someone wayyyy better! Yun na..I've said my piece I hope di ka magagalit sa akin. It's the opinion of someone who has seen you grow up from a little girl to a lovely young lady. =) So okay, go on with the "grieving process" but make sure you get over it soon coz life is too precious to waste crying over "spoilt" milk. =)

Crissy said...

thanks te! huhuhu...

Crissy said...

why do people say he's not worth it? T_T