Sunday, December 28, 2008

My Friend's Night

Last night, it was one memorable once in a life time event for my friend, May. Marrying the man of his dreams. It was indeed a very joyous moment to see them bind their love under God's grace. We're all very happy for these new couples and we all wish them the best!



The gathering also gave way to reunite with my college friends. And not only that, it was a surprise to see my former Nursery co-trainee, Carol at the celebration. So we made a way to bond together by taking pics of us both.




Friday, December 26, 2008

On Christmas Day...

It was JC's birthday yesterday and we had a small celebration at his grandma's house. Invited the kids along the neighborhood and they had a small feast.



At night, we went to Mana Davao to take some pictures with their attractive Christmas decors. Even met my former classmate, Nikki, there.




Finally...

Last night, I gave in to my urge of calling Arven after I found out he made a new ym. I guess that was the last sign I was waiting for, so I have to confirm his feelings for me as well as my feelings so I wouldn't be thinking of waiting for him to come back. Ate my pride and stooped down on his level to beg for another chance, still...he didn't gave in. Was crying but it wasn't the same tears I had before for him. Even said he's already seeing someone now. Still, I wasn't intrigued. Hayz, after the conversation, I was still crying since it's finally over and I realized I already lost my feelings for him. Time will come that he'll realized he's thinking wrong about me. c",)

Thursday, December 25, 2008


Merry Christmas!

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Giving Chances

Whatever reasons it may be, are you still willing to give someone a second chance? Some people will, others won't. Personally, I believe that everyone of us deserves another chance. Who are we to close our doors anyway? Even our parents forgave us no matter how great our mistakes were. Even God died for us to give us another chance to live our lives and to change.

Important thing is that, we learn from our mistakes and experiences in life. In this way, it helps us become more mature to face trials in our life with a positive and open mind. I guess people who doesn't give another chance are close minded. But we cannot blame them on the other hand for they were hurt.

But what hurts most is when you gave someone another chance/s, believing that everything will be okay after and he'll somehow change; but, when you were the one who made a mistake, everything just ended and there's no chance given to you to prove yourself by that same person. Worst is, he thinks you'll never change and he thinks worst things about you.

Monday, December 22, 2008

Realization

It's still unbelievable for me that our long term relationship's over. I really regret what I did that hurt him, if only I could turn back the time. If only he could give me a second chance.

It hurts me more knowing that he really didn't love me that much. That this incident showed me that our love's not that strong to face adversities in our relationship. Instead, his love for me faded and was replaced with anger. Though, I understand that. On the other hand, by this incident I realized that I really do love him which is painful because it's now one-sided. I can't seem to imagine myself with another man. I can't seem to love someone else again. T_T. But still, I have to try to go on living without him. He will always be in my heart.

Sunday, December 21, 2008

On Getting Hurt

Finally, I felt what it feels like getting hurt. Though I've been hurt before but I can say it was just subtle. The recent pain I went through was terribly painful. Mixed emotions have been felt not knowing what to do and made impulsive acts in the process.

Now I understand the pain it feels. And now I realized that it is not best to make decisions when you're hurt or when you're mad like what other authors say. It is because you base your judgments on your emotions which is not healthy. You are making hasty and impulsive decisions. I've been in that stage. Was impulsive with my decisions and made stupid actions. And after the pain subsides, regrets from making such decisions set in.

When you're hurt, you only care about your feelings. You only see the side of you, you're welfare. You become emotionally blinded. You can't think rationally. In this time, you need social support like your family and friends to help you see the other side of the picture...not to judge and be bias in favor of you. They are there for support and give advices. But it doesn't mean then that their advises are the best. In the end it is only you who decide rationally with an open mind. Praying also helps a lot and surrendering yourself to God helps you in the grieving process.


*Photo by ~Miss Charon of deviantart.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

A Prayer of Thanks

"Haven't been online lately but now I'm back!"


Heavenly Father,

For these past few months, I've been dwelling on this painful experience in my life. It was indeed so painful to hurt the person I loved. Still, you stood by me & comforted me with your loving grace. I've done everything to save our relationship at all cost. But you see, despite of this, you showed me the real personality of the person I loved. If this didn't happen, I wouldn't see the PROS and the CONS of our relationship. This was the chance you gave me to foresee my future with him, and it wasn't desirable after all.

I admit I'm not a perfect gf. I admit I failed. But these are not enough for him to verbally and emotionally abused me. You were the one who knew everything and I lift these all up to you. Surrendering to you my heart aches, grievances, sadness, anger and regrets. Coz it is only you who understood me completely.

Thank you for my family and friends. For they were the instruments of your love. Their unconditional love and understanding really helped me face this test with an open mind. They have been very supportive and patient. Their sound advices helped me rise up from where I fall. They helped me bring myself back into my senses where I was emotionally blinded. They also helped me bring back my faith in You.

I would still thank you for bringing Arven into my life. As they say, he is just a part of my life, he isn't my life. With him, I learned how to love and be loved; got hurt and stand up again; humbled and understood. I may not be the perfect girl for him, but at least I was closed to being the right one. I would still forever cherish those times being with him coz I knew he really did loved me, but sadly, not enough to face and fight adversities.

I am grateful truly for this blessing in disguise. Starting anew on my own isn't easy without your help and guidance. But now is the time to present to you my renewed self...even better and whole once again. May you continue to guide me as I continue the journey of my life. Amen.

Now you'll see me SMILING again! c",)


Portable Fan

Back home, I am fond of sleeping anywhere in the house where I find it cozy. Don't get me wrong. I have my own bedroom but I still wanted to sleep somewhere in the house where I find it conducive for sleeping and comforting on my part. Good thing we have portable fans where I could use to give me good ventilation.

Monday, December 15, 2008

Last Word Syndrome

The day I first heard this statement from him, "Ayaw ko na talaga", it didn't get off my head. Until now, I repeatedly hear this words in my mind and it hurts like hell. I still cry over and over again whenever I remember these words. My heart's in pain and there's nothing that can ease this especially now that he's gone. I have to bear the pain coz there's nothing that I can do now. It's like your heart's being squeezed to death by an unknown thing until you'll get an infarction and it feels like I'm going to have an abnormal ECG soon.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Dreaming A Dead Person

"To dream of seeing the dead, living and happy, signifies you are letting wrong influences into your life, which will bring material loss if not corrected by the assumption of your own will force." - Dream Revealer

"Red - This is an indication of great passion and sensitivity in your emotional relationships." - Petrix

Two nights ago, I dreamt of seeing a dead person smiling at me with a red color in the background. That dead female's not my acquaintance but the moment I saw it in my dream, I sensed that it's a sign that it's already over. Although basing on the dream dictionary I researched online, it didn't tackle about ending. I'm confused.. Hehe. Although there were two of them but I didn't saw the face of the other one but I knew it's a dead person as well who is lying on the dead female's lap. I guess the dead body is the sign for ending. *Sob.

Hayz, I'm sad that it's finally over and I missed him so badly. I'm trying to be happy but deep down inside I'm in so much pain. T_T



*Photo by ~Cast-Down-Doll of Deviantart.

Researching for Diet Pills

When it comes to weight loss, we usually want the quickest and effective ways to lose our unwanted fats. As posted on my last entry, some goes to the gym and sweat all their toxins out while some go on a diet. There are some who are lazy enough or doesn't have the time to do the natural way and opted to taking diet pills instead.

I'm curious though so I am asking you now, what's your way in losing weight?

Reducing Body Fats

Most women in our society are very much concern with their body. Some enrolled in the gym for toning and for healthy living. There are certain ladies as well who takes fat burners to speed their losing weight. A lot of these products were being advertised in the television with popular celebrities endorsing them.

So what's the
best fat burner we have these days? Mind you, I'm very much cautious with taking certain supplements and I consult my physician first before taking any. I suggest you do the same thing if you plan to take some. It's also helpful to do some research.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

BEAR-iuca


The Spirit of BEAR-iuca

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Once upon a time, in a land far, far away, there lived a powerful Genie Princess named Mariuca who was known throughout the land as the friendliest, most popular blogger in the blogosphere kingdom. Adored and admired by international visitors and commentators from around the world, the Genie Princess travels the blogosphere on her magical flying carpet, always looking for ways to share her good fortune with others.

Over the past two years of blogging, Mariuca has met so many new people, from all walks of life and all over the world, each one bringing a little of their culture and lifestyle when they visit and comment on Mariuca’s two sites. So on her 2nd Blog Anniversary, Mariuca wanted to celebrate with all of her international blogosphere buddies by hosting a bear-naming contests at Wishing On A Falling Star and Mariuca’s Perfume Gallery and to pass her two lucky, cuddly teddy bears along to the winners who came up with the best names.

On the opposite side of the world, from the moment Roxy (the prolific Roxiticus Desperate Housewives blogger) and her sweet daughters London and Maddie saw the teddy in his personalized t-shirt and blue muffler at Wishing On A Falling Star, they knew that he needed to come to live with their family in Mendham, NJ. The three New Jersey girls named him immediately and burst into a wonderful song for BEAR-iuca:


BEAR-iuca, BEAR-iuca, amazing teddy cheer.
BEAR-iuca, BEAR-iuca, we’d love you to come live here!

Mariuca received 16 possible names for the Mariuca Teddy Bear, making it hard for the Genie Princess to choose just one…then Alakazam! A bolt of lightning delivered the perfect way to share BEAR-iuca’s good fortune to bloggers around the globe. While the soft, stuffed, cuddly BEAR-iuca is on his way to live with Roxy, London, Maddie and Rex in the Roxiticus Valley, the Spirit of BEAR-iuca is racing through the blogosphere to bring happiness, holiday cheer, and beary best wishes to everyone who welcomes him into their online home and passes along the BEAR-iuca good luck charm to ten friends.

Please play along with us by following a few important rules:

1. Add your site(s) to the list once you have received the Spirit of BEAR-iuca badge of teddy bear cheer.
2. Pass along the Spirit of BEAR-iuca and his cheery badge to as many people as you like.
3. Leave a comment HERE once you’ve passed on the Spirit of BEAR-iuca.
4. Once Roxy and the Genie Princess have visited your site to make sure your links are complete and proper, you will then be added to the Master List.
4. To ensure everyone receives equal link benefit, please UPDATE your list regularly!

BEAR-iuca LOVES

1. Mariuca 2. Roxiticus Desperate Housewives 3. Mariuca’s Perfume Gallery 4. Roxy’s Best Of... 5. Bay Head Blog 6. Roxiticus Best Blogs 7. Emila's Illustrated Blog 8. Metz - Empty Streets 9. The Spirit of Blogging 10. Speedcat Hollydale Page 11. Snapshot 12. purplefrogcat 13. Turn-u-Off 14. Simple Life 15. A Little Girl Talk 16. Life in the Lapadula House 17. Spicybugz World 18. The Mom With Brownies 19. Our High School Homeschool 20. Our Five Dangerous Boys 21. The Big Dog 22. LadyJava's Lounge 23. Moments of My Life 24. Life is too short to be ordinary 25. A Great Pleasure 26. Time Goes By 27. Life According To Me 28. Laketrees 29. This is a miracle 30. Porcelain Doll 31. Moms...CheckNyo 32. Wonderful Things In Life 33. Sweet Nothings 34. Hot Shit Form Here 35. Not Just a Mom Site 36. The Life of a Mom 37. Wiehanne Lounge 38. The Painted Veil 39. My Crossroads 40. Little Mermaid 41. LOVE's Haven 42. Also Mommy 43. The Journey 44. Comedy Plus 45. Making sense...(somehow) 46. The Modern Mom 47. Stay At Home Mom 48. Picture Clusters 49. Maiylah's Snippets 50. Sweety tots 51. My Discoveries 52. A Life to Remember 53. Rekha 54. Crissy's Haven 55. Crissy's Library 56. Crissy's Zone 57. Shopping Blog 58. Crafts and cooking 59. Asian Mutt International 60. YOU Next!



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Trading

I assume most of us own a CDs or DVDs here. Probably a collection of movies and music or whatsoever. But have you thought about what to do with your other CDs and DVDs? Just like if it's of no value to you anymore, do you just throw those away?

At AbundaTrade, you can get to trade those used cds and DVDs to a a new purchase such an ipod or a digital camera. Cool huh? You can also trade your used books with them. Now there's value with those used items.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

one of my comfort zones


Most of us have our bedrooms as our comfort zone. It's our sanctuary and they say you may know the character of the person by looking at his/her room.

I do have my own room but recently, I find myself sleeping in the dining room. During our recent break up, I got used to sleeping in that corner. I don't know why, but I think I'm more comfortable there. It's situated in the left upper corner of our dining room and next to it is already our dining table.

Where's your comfort zone?

Review King

Before purchasing any product, isn't it appropriate to read some reviews with regards to it. At least you'll know what to expect and what to be cautious about. In that way, you'll make right choices on what to buy.

On ReviewKing, you will find Product Reviews and ratings from lifestyle, fitness, movies, food and etc. It's helpful you know. They will point you to the right direction on finding the products and services you are looking for in a quick and efficient manner.

Monday, December 8, 2008

waiting for his sms

Since this morning I was texting Arven some messages. Sadly, I got no reply. Tried calling him in his mobile but it's out of reach. I remembered him telling me he have problems with his mobile charger, it's not working according to him or perhaps his cellphone's not working well.

Just this afternoon, I was strolling in the mall alone and still trying to call him in his mobile phone. After many attempts I successfully heard his voice and ask him what's wrong and how he is. Still, he told me it's his phone, he don't know what's wrong with it. Then the line was cut. Tried calling again and I can't reach him again. Hayz. I was still trying to call him while I was heading home and when I was able to get through the line, I told him I'm going to their house as I was getting worried about not hearing from him the whole day.

There he was, with his two siblings in the living room singing with their videoke system. I guess, he was telling the truth. His phone's off and was plugged for charging but it's not charging. LOL.


I guess I now realized how difficult and worrysome it was texting someone you care and not hearing from him back. I miss the old him. He used to text me everyday, almost every minute but I did not appreciated his effort...now I do. Back then, I was contented to text him back with only few messages. But when I don't hear from him the whole day, I misses him and that's what I am feeling now. Hayz, I just wish everything will get back to the way it was before. c",)

*Photo credited to ~nebulaskin of deviantart.

Sunday, December 7, 2008

web hosting geeks

I was formerly looking for a web host for my blog. As far as I can remember, back then it was quite expensive...I think and I didn't know what to look for in purchasing a host and what host is worth buying for. So I ended up hosting my blog with blogger instead to be in the safer side.

I found this site online, webhostinggeeks.com, where you can find great independent reviews about certain web site hosting providers at an affordable price. For like $10 a month, you can avail of one free domain name registration and a 30 day money back guarantee. Aside from the hosting review, you can find the web host's features as well as their bonus features and compare them with their prices.

I suggest you look up to this site if you are looking for a new web host. I think it's reliable since it's been operating since 2004 and has been receiving awards since then for their services. Perhaps you'll be lucky to find the suitable web host for you and your site. And I'm wishing you would.

You can learn more about web hosting from this site if you don't know anything about it yet. It will help you gain knowledge about web hosting which will help you for a smarter decision making when purchasing one.

for these past few days, after the so-called break up, Arven and I still constantly communicate via text messaging. i was close to giving up my hope of us getting back. just yesterday, we talked personally and i guess we're getting back together. we're trying to fix things and honestly, it's hard. things have changed, it isn't the same as before. even he changed. he's not the usual expressive guy i knew. he honestly told me about it, that he finds it hard to trust me again and that the pain is still there. though he admitted that he still loves me, though it's lesser than before and he's scared to love me more. huhu.

i'm quite happy being with him again, though kinda sad because things are different now. i miss the old him. T_T.

Friday, December 5, 2008

The day that was...

I was able to buy a dvd copy of Gossip Girl Season 2. At last, I'm done watching with the season 1. Can't get enough of Queen B and the rest of the gangs.

I've also bought a dvd copy of Death Note 3 live action. I'm a big fan of death note and seeing a death note 3 intrigued me knowing that the characters already died from it. Bought it and just recently finished watching it. It's not the same concept with the previous death note I've seen. This is more of L's story.

Right now, I wanted to go to the bookstore and buy the books I've been eyeing for the past few days.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

PinayMommy Blog Contest



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it hurts a lot...

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Dropping EC with ease

Are you using entrecard toolbar now? Well I am using it for several days now and I can say it helped me dropped my entrecards with ease. And because I have three blogs, it's not hard to switch from one blog to the other with this toolbar.

I'm using this while watching Gossip Girl. Still in season 1. So far I'm liking it and getting addicted to it. I'll be buying the season 2 since I'm about to finish it today.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Loving too much...

I was crying my heart out since last night over this break up, geez! Can't accept the fact he's dumping me. Who wouldn't do that after all that I've done, right? I was hoping he'll changed his mind but unfortunately he didn't. He always emphasized how hurt he was and how stupid he thought he was. It hurts to hear him say he wanted to forget me and start a new life without me.

After all the begging and pleading I made, the urge of hurting myself set in. But my mom came in to the rescue. We talked about it. I told her my mistakes and that I don't want to let go of him. I repeatedly told her it was my mistake and I should make up for it. She advised me that we should talked about it and compromise. And I quote what she said...

"...Talk about it. Yes, it was your mistake but despite that, if he's still willing to accept you, hold on and go on with the relationship. But if he's not willing to accept the past, let go and move on. There's no point of holding on when he cannot accept it and doesn't love you anymore. You'll argue about it over and over again even until you'll get married. It's painful to accept but that's part of loving. You will get hurt in the process but if you really love someone, you'll endure the pain, forgive and forget, and love again. If he comes back, good for you; if not, then just accept it. Be brave! And didn't I tell you not to love too much?"

"...if he can't accept the past, he doesn't truly love you. Because if he does, he won't let go of you no matter what you've done and how painful it was."


Honestly, it was comforting to hear that from her. I didn't expect it thinking that she was insensitive, unapproachable, a nagger and biased. I've heard that advise from everyone, but it's just comforting and convincing hearing it from her. I never talked about my problems with her. After our conversation, I felt relieved though there's still pain but I'm trying to accept that we're over. Wait, is cool off the same as break up? Either way, I hope it's not final but I'm guessing it is.

I think I followed her advise not to love too much. But what happened? He even accused me for taking him for granted. Yeah right, I did feel too comfortable of his love. And because of that, I became the unfaithful gf and now we're over. Still I'm hoping he'll come back, but I think he won't since he wants to find his true love. As for him, I will always be the unfaithful gf but he will always be my one true love. Though I screwed up, huhu.

Haayz, gugma! Better luck next time, Crissy! Gosh, I'm still trying to hide the pain. SOB. T_T



*Photo by ~Xx-Eclise-Clarke-xX of deviantart.

Is this considered a basement?

Basically our house has been used as a storage of some stocks from our shop. And they're obviously occupying the space in our front yard. You'll see wheel rims, coilovers and other stuffs that I do not even know what they are called. Although those rims helped conceal the unfinished open window we have in the dining room, so I think it's double purpose anyway.

Lawyers for specific health disease

As a health care provider, I am aware of the fact that we need lawyers to defend us in terms of suits accused on us, and of course patients do also need one to safeguard and defend their rights. Though what I didn't know is that there are these certain lawyers for cerebral palsy patients. Is this specialization? I'll try to figure that out.

the business sector...

There was a time I got worried about my future with "A", him being a future seafarer and me being a nurse with the dream to work abroad. I thought if we'll both work abroad there will be little chance for us to communicate or perhaps see each other. So I thought that perhaps there should be one of us who'll stay here. And I think it must be me. Considering this case, I planned to set up a business. Since it might be hard to start one, I consider getting a franchise. After all there are a lot of franchise opportunity out there to chose from. I guess, that plan will just remain a plan.